Once a cheater always a cheater?

I think that at a certain age cheating is common. I think that as long as there is real love in a relationship everything can be worked out but how do you work out cheating. She is now in her late 30's and wants to try again shes a real adult now she cheated on me once and flirted alot when we were together that was back in our early and mid 20's. I want to work it out but don't know where to start.

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Sandra42 · 46-50, F

Take it from someone who knows if you're not willing to accept her cheating than it's best to let her go, even if you work it out the trust is gone and you'll always think about it, and when things aren't going right you'll always use the fact that she cheated.