Once a cheater always a cheater?

I think that at a certain age cheating is common. I think that as long as there is real love in a relationship everything can be worked out but how do you work out cheating. She is now in her late 30's and wants to try again shes a real adult now she cheated on me once and flirted alot when we were together that was back in our early and mid 20's. I want to work it out but don't know where to start.

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SW-User

Some people cheat out of habit. That is harder to change.
Some people cheat out of circumstance. That is easier to change because it is not really in their nature.

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@SW-User Thats true well put

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@SW-User What circumstances foster cheating?

SW-User

@bushi2020 off the top of my head, an emotionally absent partner.

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@SW-User Do you think someone that is adopted would have emotional issues that would make certain aspects of a relationship difficult.

SW-User

@bushi2020 Yes. Abandonment issues.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

Sure some people cheat out of circumstances like being bored in their relationship but that’s not a right thing to do.