Once a cheater always a cheater?

I think that at a certain age cheating is common. I think that as long as there is real love in a relationship everything can be worked out but how do you work out cheating. She is now in her late 30's and wants to try again shes a real adult now she cheated on me once and flirted alot when we were together that was back in our early and mid 20's. I want to work it out but don't know where to start.

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Roadsterrider · 56-60, M

Start with the understanding that if she cheats, she gets kicked to the curb. No mercy, no warning. I have been married for 32 years, my wife and I had a "come to Jesus" meeting today, I have a new bank account, my direct deposit has been changed, her responsibility is half of the household expenses and if she can't get her head straight, I will file for divorce.

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@Roadsterrider No my friend 32 years is amazing you have to make it work. May I ask what happened?

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