They want to sample the buffet, rather than order off the menu and just eat that.
I confess even when I am at a buffet I will not finish my plate of cooling, dried out food, and jump up and get a new, fresh plate. Especially if it is pie.
I have been single my whole life. I have never been with a lady.
I confess I have lustful thoughts for lots of women I encounter. And if I get to know them, it can become emotional. And sometimes the emotional attachment comes first, and lust only comes later.
Many of these women I learn are non-single. Often that gives me pause, but if the feelings and/or lust I have are strong, my adulterous/cheating thoughts continue.
But it is all fantasy. I would never want to inject myself between two people who love each other. If love has died, then perhaps. But she should become single, first, before turning to me. I would never want to be sneaky about anything.
I cannot speak as one who has been in a relationship and whose eyes have strayed, but rather as one who is desperately lonely who nobody ever wants, so when a nice lady befriends me, I melt. Even if she is not single. And if she is in a bad relationship my imagination leaps ahead, hoping she will escape and choose me. Yet no woman has ever chosen me.
If I ever were in a relationship, and it soured, I would end it first before seeking another.
At least at my age and the way my body functions now, lust is not a big issue. In fact, I worry that I may need drugs to assist me in satisfying a lady.
My mind still gets lustful, even if my body feels dead at times. Yet love means so much more.
