Why do men cheat so often…so easily?

You would say that maybe his wife has become fat, or ugly or unattractive to him. (Men do think like that!)

And you know it’s not true when you read news about Shakira’s breakup after 2 kids with her partner of 11 years.

Shakira is like the ideal woman( a successful woman, mother, humanitarian, businesswoman, artist, fit and beautiful in every way!) 💖

I wish she had married someone better….

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OldBrit · 61-69, M

For some men (the swordsmen I used to call them) its something in their make up where they need to have a new woman they are always trying to woo it seems like they need that as some validation of their male prowess.

Vivaci

@OldBrit So there’s no end to this validation?

OldBrit · 61-69, M

@Vivaci no I watched these guys over the years. They have the dedicated loyal wife at home, but they look out a new target and they begin to prowl. If it gets difficult they leave first wife and take in second. She becomes the loyal loving wife at home but they are already working on the next.

As I say over my years I've watched this repeat over and over.

LadyGrace ·

@OldBrit Sounds narcissistic.

Vivaci

@OldBrit This is what my marriage was like! And you’re so right…I’ve observed my ex over the years…he’s still the same. No remorse or regret over his behavior or horrible habits.

Vivaci

@LadyGrace Yes, they’re definitely narcissistic.

pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

@OldBrit idiots who think with their dicks instead of their brains...

Vivaci

@pdqsailor1 That is why they’re never going to be satisfied….running around from pillar to post.

pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

@Vivaci like a blind man not have a CLUE as to what they want or even realizing what they have or had even after it is gone..Part of wisdom is KNOWING when you have it good and sticking with it - and not messing it up... I sail a 48 year old sailboat - fully modernized and updated, superbly maintained ... I would not trade it for any other boat I have seen.. I drive a 1993 Mercedes Benz, the best model they EVER made, pristine low miles car, nicest one in the country - not one car out there I would trade it even for.. and I am married to the same Woman who captured my heart the moment I laid eyes on her... Let me be the first to explain that new is rarely better and it is good to have the wisdom to know that this is as good as it gets and its not likely to ever get any better than I have it.. A wise man said - you have a hard on? Do you want to keep it? Then don't fuck with it..