Why do men cheat so often…so easily?

You would say that maybe his wife has become fat, or ugly or unattractive to him. (Men do think like that!)

And you know it’s not true when you read news about Shakira’s breakup after 2 kids with her partner of 11 years.

Shakira is like the ideal woman( a successful woman, mother, humanitarian, businesswoman, artist, fit and beautiful in every way!) 💖

I wish she had married someone better….

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Magenta · F Best Comment

I don't think it's about the partner, it's about the cheater. Lust, an ego fix, selfishness, looking for that lost new exciting butterfly sensation, many reasons. I know a few men that have endured horrible menopause with their wives and other bad behavior with their wives, yet have never cheated. Yet ones with faithful decent women, yet have cheated.

Vivaci

@Magenta Couldn’t have put it better, M. 😕

A gentleman who sees his wife or partner in trouble, will protect her/be there for her/stand by her/fight for her when she needs it.

A cowardly pussy will otoh do exactly what her husband did in this case. …find excuses and leave her to fend for herself. I hope he pays for this someday.

Magenta · F

Thank you for BC @Vivaci. 🌹
I do realize some situations or partners could contribute to pushing them towards it, but still, it is always a choice.

Disclaimer: I'm not judging, I'm just saying.

Magenta · F

@Vivaci Indeed. It's called commitment and honor and few seem to posses it.

Vivaci

@Magenta You’re welcome, Magnificent M 💖😇 Appreciate your insightful reply.

Indeed. Some men just don’t have any self-respect, or sense it seems. I say this from personal experience….my ex never bothered about cheating on me. He’s also abused himself with his addictions, so I guess it’s my fault for not having the foresight of seeing his true colors then.

It’s not like we expect them to change after marriage, but at least one expects some honor and dignity upon commitment.

Vivaci

@Magenta omg!!! Same words…honor and commitment…🤗🤗 😚💜❤️