Why do men cheat so often…so easily?

You would say that maybe his wife has become fat, or ugly or unattractive to him. (Men do think like that!)

And you know it’s not true when you read news about Shakira’s breakup after 2 kids with her partner of 11 years.

Shakira is like the ideal woman( a successful woman, mother, humanitarian, businesswoman, artist, fit and beautiful in every way!) 💖

I wish she had married someone better….

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CookieCrumbs · F

People cheat for many different reasons. It does not make it right, but what I’d say is we the ‘spectators’ are not the parties in their marriage.

The society may see her like you put it:

Shakira is like the ideal woman( a successful woman, mother, humanitarian, businesswoman, artist, fit and beautiful in every way!)

But we are not married to her. We are not living with her to know what could have driven the partner to do what he did.

Vivaci

@CookieCrumbs True…but as a woman and being in a similar situation once, I know that even if you give the world to the wrong person, they will still cheat on you …it’s just how they are.

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@Vivaci
Agree with you there. Some people just can’t be happy with what they have. Nothing is ever enough. No one is ever enough.

They seem to need the validation of their WORTH (looks, attractiveness or sexual skill) from new, different and more people. The appreciation of one who truly values them is never enough.

In they end, by having their eyes on the new prize, they lose what is more valuable. Such was the case with Shakira’s husband.’

Vivaci

I hate to see her suffer for his actions…when he should be paying for it. I pray her legal battles are over soon and she can return to Miami with her kids and live happily again. 🙁@CookieCrumbs

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@Vivaci
The trauma brought by betrayal would take a long time to heal. We hope she and kids will find healing after all this is over.