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My biggest mistake

If your partner hurts you, betrays your trust, screws your happiness, gets verbally and physically abusive, SPEAK UP!

Don't let that pain bury inside you because you will do the mistake of taking out on someone unknowingly and when they did nothing wrong.

My biggest mistake was i never asked that person WHY
I never demanded for an answer after the betrayal, after they conveniently without my knowledge discarded me and said i did nothing wrong. And it was all them and they fell in love with some one else when just one night ago they were laughing and joking with me.

At least i had the fckng right to know I'm kicked out . But no it was never told. There was silent treatment, ignorance not knowing what did i do to deserve it.

My biggest mistake was never confronting them.
My biggest mistake was ruining a new found friendship because those things they did still haunt me and reminds me even after 7 years of separation.

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MellyMel22 · F

Confronting them most likely wouldn’t give you closure. Most abusive people see it as being the victim’s fault or blame their poor upbringing.

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SW-User

@Wol62 didn't you read the post? We were laughing a night before. They said i did nothing and they just fell in love with someone else

Wol62 · 51-55, M

@SW-User I did but I guess I didn't understand it

MellyMel22 · F

@SW-User I hope you’re feeling better now. I missed your comment before.

Barefooter25 · 46-50, M

In just about every relationship I've been in, including a just recent one, the girl has had some serious mental issue. Sometimes I wondered whether I should have done something differently but it then occurred to me that the relationship wasn't worth saving.

SW-User

@Barefooter25 the person did have an issue but i always was there for them in their worse times

@SW-User I know that feeling.

Nothing worse than feeling used & abused then discarded. It was his choice not yours. Dont feel bad get out there and meet someone who will treat you right. 🥰
Have fun hes not worth a second of your thoughts now.

SW-User

@Cutiepi23 she :)

She does seem narcissistic all the better that you are out. She wont be dwelling on it so neither should you.

Mooed78 · F

It sounds like someone with strong narcissistic traits. No empathy or no care for you and stone walling you. If you confronted them they probably throw it back at you and say its your fault. Sadly people like this never change.

SW-User

@Mooed78 i have been told by countless people that she was a narcissist

Fairydust · F

You don’t need answers, just know it wasn’t your fault, people like that have issues from way back, stuff they haven’t delt with, childhood issues etc.

I think people like that are never happy And they keep searching to fill the gap or wounds they carry and hurt many along the way.

I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with that.
😞

SW-User

@Fairydust i feel sick even till today! There's this nausea i feel when I'm reminded of them

Fairydust · F

@SW-User I understand, betrayal is devastating. Hope you’re ok 🖤

SW-User

@Fairydust not knowing u r betrayed and the way the person decides to break up is by not telling me they are not anymore with me....
That's torture. That's making a fool out of me

Wol62 · 51-55, M

Sorry that your partner beat you up ❤️

Glad you had the courage to finally leave.

SW-User

@Wol62 i did not leave. They went for someone else and i was kept guessing

Wol62 · 51-55, M

@SW-User Sorry, I read that wrong.

Wol62 · 51-55, M

Oh, I've given my partner the silent treatment.

SW-User

@Wol62 it's a torture

Wol62 · 51-55, M

@SW-User That is kinda what I hope for, sorry to say.

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