Cheating isn't THAT big of a deal.

It's a violation of the pre-established rules of engagement, and one grave enough to cause very serious psychological distress. It's fine if you don't find it that bad when it happens to you, but everyone processes emotions differently, and the sheer number of people who are seriously hurt by it should give you at least some pause.

That said, monogamy being the default is a disease.

My hub always puts his sisters down because they cheated. It's like he has some thing against woman and made up his mind about it a long time ago. Like all woman cheat even though his dad cheated.🤔 He has never once put his dad down for cheating but calls his sisters cheaters all the time and says it with disdain.

It's actually kind freaky how many people would off themselves over it. I mean damn can't you find someone else.

tbh that's a sad mindset but cheating is often abt maintaining the power and ego in the relationship so in that sense i get u

I think they were just trying to find themselves.

Maybe he's mad at woman.