I Think Cheating Is Wrong

Either you are single or you're not. If you're 'unhappily' married or 'having problems' or 'having second thoughts' it does not make you free shop around in the singles market looking for a possible alternative just in case you should need one. If your partner's no good then what's stopping you from leaving them? You can't have it both ways. A person may be an unknowing cheat by participating in a relationship with someone that they believe to be single when they really are not but that situation will not go on for very long and it is not exactly the same thing as deliberate cheating. Taking advantage of a committed partner's trust is theft of the worst kind. You are not only stealing the time and money and trust of your spouse (or would be spouse) but you are doing the same thing to the person who believes you are single and available. It hurts everyone. There are no winners. (Just corrected a spelling mistake)