I Was Cheated On By My Boyfriend

My bf cheated on me last year while i was pregnant with our first child. I was in cali due to living situations and he was az. It doesnt take much to be honest. I asked many times and i felt it in my gut he was lying to me and keeping things from me. After the baby was here, 2 weeks after birth i was in az with him again...saw things on his phone that were suspicious to me. I questioned again and made him swear on me and his son..he swore on both of us that he had been faithful our whole relationship and honest... :'( smh i had to message the homewrecker myself to find out that what i felt in my heart was true...since then its been a rocky road trying to forgive and move forward. I genuinely always loved him...so it was hard to not give him another chance ... Its been tough though. So tough :'(

Northwest · M

Do you know why you're still with him? I realize that walking away, is often a very complex decision, but if you were to create a list, what would you have on it?

AquariusRose · 31-35, F

Hmmm...a list of why im still with him? ... Okay i guess first is he brought out the best in me when no one else ever did before. I left me ex and my life in cali for him.
I think thats the best someone can do for you is bringing out something so great in you that you didnt know you still had...
Rest of the list, he is funny, he has changed a lot since the cheating really. His son loves him and he is a great father which i admire. I can be myself around him, he fights for me and defends me, he tries his best to get me things i need and want.. He gets everything our son needs... I guess the good was in the beginning and now. The middle when i was pregnant was the worse person he was to me. Then after the cheating and all the apologies, he has been the person i needed him to be from the beginning...

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

So, this is way off topic and maybe inappropriate, but there is nothng more beautiful than the women of Cali...