I Was Cheated On By My Boyfriend

@Pawan so you should 'truely love' the guy who disrespected you by cheating on you while you are in a committed relationship? Maybe that's what every man desire but not every woman wants that.

@JBird wow, you have again started defining love and relationships but I say love has no definition at all, if it's love it's so pure and can be only felt but not understood, I don't say people's should have licensed to cheat in an relationship but I know love doesn't allow soul of individual to do so, I infer you both were yet to experience love

@Pawan love is irrespective of pain caused by the infidelity. It's the destruction of trust that triggers the pain. You love a person even after the cheating but it's difficult to trust that person again.

@JBird destruction of trust that's heavy terminology but ask your mind only that can give you appropriate answers for mine question to you that " whether you were really in love or not?"

@Pawan if I didn't love him I wouldn't care if he cheated. Or I wouldn't have stayed in the relationship

@JBird let me infer you, if it was love you will never care what he does or what he gave back to you and you will support his choice and decision and allow him to go wherever he is comfortable feeling pain and sence of cheating says you are yet to understand what love is

@Pawan maybe for you that's okay. But in real world, people get hurt when they're cheated by loved ones.

@JBird am not talking about any fantasy world, luckily I know people what they do for love, people in love don't feel hurted but they leave them for there happiness with other person (pardon for deep emotional thoughts)

There is sence of happiness in our partners happiness

@Pawan you got a very unrealistic and I am sorry to say this, 'cheesy' view on love. If one get hurt upon cheating, it doesn't mean they don't love them. They are bound to be hurt if they are in love.

@JBird that's according to you, I can give you a experiment if you can do so take any elderly couple like your parent ask what if there partner wanna marry someone else now, you will yourself may get answers

@Pawan funny, you should ask because my parents are divorced. My mother went through a hell of pain when she found out my father was unfaithful as did many of people I knew who were cheated by their parents.

If you truly love someone and they don't want you, you will let them go but it will be at expense of your pain. That's why it's called love and also that's why there's a thing called heart break. If there's no pain, it's not love.

@JBird ofcourse there might be some pain but ask your mother then do she was happy for your father or not and also me is apologetic for addressing your parents

@Pawan she's happy for herself rather than for my father. He was abusive to her, never loved her. Because of his ill treatment, she stopped loving him. She left him for fear for her life. If he wasn't abusive and acted like a normal human being, they wouldn't be divorced in the first place.

@JBird I think you haven't experienced love in your life, when you will find I won't need to further clarify on this and you will understand, love is beyond any definition, good luck

@Pawan you don't know me or the real side of story. Therefore it's rude and stupid of you to tell me I haven't experienced love just because I did something that's not acceptable by you. Maybe you're the one who haven't experienced love to understand the gravity of the situation. You didn't love anyone to understand the soothing pain it causes.

@JBird okay I believe you, you are cheated, victimized and taken for granted in your true love and I also didn't understood you nor your love now continue your crying

@Pawan if I was trying to be the victim or trying to get sympathies, I would be blaming my partner instead of myself. Yes, I cry just like any other normal human being to get over the pain.

@JBird excuse me mam, I can see the reason why someone may walk away from you and it's your burdens of self created thoughts and big big big your personal ego, i didn't said you are doing so for any sympathy and all

@Pawan and you think you're better? You judge people for weird reasons. Just because people don't act the way you do or think, you conclude they're wrong. I loved him with all my heart and then from nowhere you came up and judged my actions. Again you blamed me for my partner's infidelity which is even more downright cruel and insensitive. You don't understand how love or trust works.

And I never said my partner walked away from me. He's still waiting for me for a second chance. Cheating never always mean you should leave your partner. You certainly don't know how relationship work.

@JBird first of all I said may walk away not should walk away that's also in lol, let someone very lucky fellow have you; secondly I don't want any certification from your university about mine nature and lessons on true love