I Was Cheated On By My Boyfriend

@Anonymartyr every man cheats. They think with their dicks.

@JBird I have never even liked sex. I have never cheated. I have been cheated on and cheated with, but never had any need or reason to cheat- sex has never been worth all the stress and trouble.
all the men YOU like probably have that in common- that they cheat. The guys in your friend zone won't unless you aren't treating them good.

@Anonymartyr I never friend zoned anyone.

@Anonymartyr And just like you generalize that [b]all[/b] women like cheaters, based upon [b]your[/b] experience, she can generalize that [b]all[/b] men cheat, based upon [b]hers[/b].

@JBird I don't think that cheating is necessarily motivated by men being horny? I mean having openly copped to being polyamorous and demisexual at the same time I basically do not stray unless I'm EMOTIONALLY interested in somebody else. Some women seem to be unable to grasp that just because YOU'RE only capable of loving one person at a time doesn't mean everyone else is of the same nature or subject to the same limitations. generally speaking nobodies experience generalizes.

@BetweenKittensandRiots It’s cheating if you’re [b]deceitful[/b]. If you let a woman know going in that you are [b]not[/b] monogamous, if she’s smart she won’t expect it from you. She can [b]also[/b] make an informed decision about dating you in the first place.

@Anonymartyr there's no such thing as a friendzone. There's attraction and compatibility and lack thereof. I've gotten sexual with female friends before.

@bijouxbroussard That's true. I don't cheat I'm upfront about things and that this is my nature. But I want to make something clear all those years I was monogamous I was just in the closet about being fundamentally different tha other people. I suspect I'm just[i][b] wired differently .[/b][/i] In other words this isn't a choice I made, it found me.

@BetweenKittensandRiots I’m not saying it’s right or wrong. It is what it is. But if you date someone who is monogamous while wanting to have other partners, that’s incompatibility on a basic level.

@bijouxbroussard Eh poly mono relationships exist I've just never been in one...

most women insist.

@BetweenKittensandRiots Well, you just got through saying you were [b]“closeted”[/b] about being polyamorous in past relationships. That’s [b]deceit[/b]. There are [i][b]also[/b][/i] relationships where one partner trysts with the same (or opposite) gender and their spouse is accepting about it. But it’s rare.