I Have Been Cheated On, But Never Cheated On Anyone

After ten years of marriage, i recent found out that my wife is a serial cheater. She begged for forgiveness and i did for the sake of our family. I'm beginning to feel that she still hasn't changed her ways and my suspicions are being confirmed. I'm getting ready to call it quits but the truth is she needs me more than i need her. Should i really still be caring for her, in every sense?

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

People don’t change. They are just more careful about what they do and how they do it. If you can live with that I’d move on or get a divorce.

hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M

Sometimes love is saying no. Just because 'she needs you' doesn't mean you are under the obligation to be her doormat. If you say no and walk away you may do her a lot of good. It is called tough love.

Kardre · 51-55, M

What are her reasons for the behavior

Montanaman · M

Tough situation. There is a reason for infidelity. She could be addicted to the excitement of extra marrital affairs, or she's not getting her needs met. Talk it out, make a decision together. No drama, fights or accusations. Just honest talk between two caring adults.😔🤗
I'm sorry that you are going through this.😔🤗

Baremine · 70-79, C

Yes. You lovr her as Christ loves the church and gave his life for her. We as Christians cheat on Christ constantly be he nevers leaves us. He is the ecample. We need him. He doesn't need us. He wants us.

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