I Think Cheating Is Wrong

I'd like to ask men..

Is it true that you're only friendly and doesn't want to hurt the girls who like you so you still accommodate them?
Is it true that you're only kind when you lend money to your ex?

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Match · 18-21, M

First off, guys very rarely lend their ex's money and I'm guessing the fact you've seen my age and assumed I have 0 experience, but I still have an opinion.

And by the fact that he's driving 180km away to his ex is very suspicious
1. If he wanted to give her money he'd just transfer it through a banking app.
2. Theres no way he w a n t s to lend her money, something far more sinister could be happening here.

If a girlfriend of mine was driving 180km to give her ex cash, that's highly suspicious and I would probably assume there's an affair going on.

RATM1992 · 31-35, F

@Match well, the girl gave him post dated check last night for the payment dated january 2019, and he wants to give her cash now so there ya go. sigh. by the way its $3000

RATM1992 · 31-35, F

funny thing is that, they have a history of epic failed wedding when he didnt show up

Match · 18-21, M

@RATM1992 $3000 is a ridiculous amount to just g i v e to your ex, is it to pay off something?

RATM1992 · 31-35, F

he said the girl was scammed by one of her friends and had nothing at the moment. i guess she will use the money for christmas bonus since she have a farm. another funny part is i was the one who issued the check and he encashed it so he can deliver the money in cash. i dont know why he doesnt want to just deposit it or what

Match · 18-21, M

@RATM1992 Thats exactly what im suspicious about. If you dont have any kids or any responsibilities do id highly recommend going over there to investigate... Im assuming he's staying the night?

RATM1992 · 31-35, F

Hah. I miss being a teenager when i dont have any problems like this

Match · 18-21, M

@RATM1992 Hahaha you'd be surprised, I'm 15, and the stupid ass drama that I have to endure on a daily basis is ridiculous.