I Think My Husband Is Cheating On Me

Pretty sure my husband is cheating on me. Not sure what to do about it. Do I confront him about it now or wait for more proof? I finally got a chance to check his phone. Stupid idiot didn't even delete the texts.

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wallofnight

Yes you should confront him with the evidence now.
But first - do you have everything lined up as far as a place to live, a car, or have you already thought about that?

MySide · 46-50, F

I took pictures of some of the texts. I have no where else to go. I stay at home with the kids all day, I have no outside job.

Unsureofall

I am in the same situation. There are a number of reasons why I think he is cheating. Flirty online conversations with other women is one. I just found pictures of his erect penis in various stages of undress on his phone. He says he did not send them to anyone. My heart wants to believe him, but my head knows he is lying. I am a stay at home mom with nowhere else to go and absolutely no money of my own so I feel trapped and he knows it.

wallofnight

Do you have any family members or friends to call upon?

Unsureofall

I keep all of my suspicions to myself and have NEVER told anyone, not my closest family members or my best friend. Nobody in my family is in a fanatical position to help me, they are all struggling to make ends meet. It is very difficult to feel so alone and so trapped.