I Think Cheating Is Wrong

If I get cheated on and the guy's says that he still loves me, his actions clearly show that he doesn't love me enough. And if that's what he calls love, I want no part of it. I get that everyone makes mistakes but cheating on someone is more than a mistake. Anyone who cheats knows exactly what they're doing and knows that what they're doing is wrong. So for their sake they better be ready to live with the consequences.

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black4white · 56-60, M

maybe humans are not built to stay with one person all their lives and we have been conditioned to believe its that way...just being the devils advocate in this situation. People change relationships change and society as a whole has tied everything into if you cheat you are doomed and blah blah... just talking for good conversation :-)

GalacticJourney · F

@black4white yea it's possible but even if we weren't meant to have monogamous relationships it wouldn't feel as special if the same things that my boyfriend does for/with me does the same thing with other people. I'm not necessarily the jealous type but I let people know the type of relationship I want and if they don't want the same thing then that's ok, as long as their honest and don't waste my time by pretending that they do.

black4white · 56-60, M

@GalacticJourney totally tracking :-)

But imagine if that special thing was something else and sex was just sex...i mean at the end of the day we are all mammals just like all the others mammals and few if any deal with the BS... the strongest male wins and it is what it is...The problem is that some weak male put a rule in the book that we had to share the women... hahahaha aka monogamous relations was born :-) hahahaha

GalacticJourney · F

@black4white haha yea but that's what I mean. If sex was just sex it would kinda lose its sensuality and significance.

black4white · 56-60, M

@GalacticJourney well ummm okay i see where ya going but that is one of those subjects we would talk on in a very intellectual manner because i am sure i can show you my side as you can show me yours but dont want to hijack your post :-)

GalacticJourney · F

@black4white oh that's alright with me lol