I Am In An Age Gap Relationship Well I might have been in one right now, if only I didn't...

SW-User

If it was a real love, he would have contacted you sooner. Probably he had moved on. Maybe I'm wrong. If you want to talk to him, you can. But be careful. I'm telling you this because I was asked out by a guy in his 20's when I was a teenager. I had luck and found that he just want to use me. I was so sure that he loved me.

amandra · 26-30, F

Lol everyone. Just to clear it out. He's not that type of guy. In our 3 years talking he never opened anything about sex. Sometimes I'll tease him so many times about getting into that topic but he'll always end diverting it to poetry and stuff. And I think that's why he's a guy to miss and remember. Cause he's not close minded and a perv. He confessed to me when I was 16. And it was a love not a lust.

Poptartinvasion

I do have to agree with Silver Heart on some of it as well. It can be a bit effy since it's been a couple years since you've contacted him so I wouldn't go in with a full heart. if anything aim for friendship until you learn more about the situation. People change and grow and he may not even be in a relationship, but he may not be the same guy you had feelings for and vise versa.

PsychoMantis · 31-35, M

Love I was on EP 2012 too, sigh.

amandra · 26-30, F

Well maybe you could be right that he has moved on. But all I want is just to talk to him again. I just miss the guy. Thank you tho for warning me. I appreciate it. I'll be careful next time.

amandra · 26-30, F

@sweetdreamsrubi yea I was. I wish I could contact him but he's not reachable. I was thinking of messaging his sister on Instagram but that would be really weird for her. :/

SW-User

Hmm, not to brust your bubble. But I don't think that's a genuine kind of affection he has for you. Asking a 14 old girl out when you're a adult. That's pedophile. You're lucky you rejected him.

amandra · 26-30, F

@poptartinvasion I'd really do that now :( thank you really. I appreciate it. I guess I'll just tell her I'm a friend so it would not be so creepy. Thank you again very much.

curmudgeon1968 · 51-55, M

Hopefully he can look back on it just as fondly as you can.

Poptartinvasion

Amanda I don't think it'll be weird if you message his sister. I would just let her know that you're a friend of his and you're trying to reach him and lost his contact information. You never know he might miss you to if anything you should at least make an effort to contact him or you'll just keep wondering.

SW-User

Let us know how you get on?

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

Yeahh...thats I know how feels...I have many things to discuss but comment can't contains all..

PsychoMantis · 31-35, M

amanda don't plus even if they open Ep it doesn't matter because all the cool people left around 2013

SweetDreamsRubi · 31-35, F

[c=#800055]well.. You were being careful, thats not a bad thing either... Maybe you can contact him? If hes not married.. [/c]

amandra · 26-30, F

@psychomantis yea. It's sad that they had to shut it down. Do you think they'll ever put it back soon?

amandra · 26-30, F

@essexphil nope. That's why it'll be really weird if I'll message her :/

amandra · 26-30, F

I highly doubt that curmudgeon. He has a girlfriend now or maybe a wife :(

whateverhappens · 26-30, F

um... cant be falling for weird people on these things gurl no no noo lolz

amandra · 26-30, F

Well it is the only ticket I have to talk to him. :( it's just sadddd :'(

SW-User

Best to leave it then. Keep as a happy memory and move on.

Poptartinvasion

Either way good luck! And I hope all goes well. ☺

SW-User

Were you friends with his sister?