I Have Been In An Abusive Relationship

Honey, sadly he is never going to change. You need to get to a domestic violence shelter for protection, seek a qualified counselor. His behavior toward you is part of a cycle of abuse. You need to make a plan and follow through.

Well maybe ask for help that house you were going to go to ask them to come get you from work and just go. Change your cell number make sure you have passwords or all your accounts make sure you do not share any accounts if you do take your name off make sure you do that yourself. If you are on the account you are responsibly for what goes on the account so get your name off.Look for a new job because you cannot work in the same place because you would be a open target for him. You are aware if you go into a hospital they can help you in some states the hospital call the police and the police press charges so you do not have to do anything. The police do not back down. You can do this it's time to get back your life stop allowing him to win. It just mind games. Sorry I do not mean that lightly you can do this and if you need help it there you just need to ask for it. I reported my mother years ago for abuse and I was taken away.

I know what your going through I was an abused Husband but I did manage to get out but the scars remain a person like that rarely changes and I really hope you find your way out but if ya need to just vent or chat or even a smile just hit me up and I shall do my best we victims have to stick together now

I feel you ever need support, message me. I have been through abuse, too. Physical, psychological, sexual... for five years. Only you have the abolity to make a change and escape, but if you ever just need a friend who can empathize - hmu! 💖 sending positive vibes.

An abuser doesn't see what they do as wrong and they won't change for anyone .

And you can make it simple just give your keys to your boss and ask him to give them to him you do not need to tell him nothing or if your ex has a locker leave them in the lock or on his desk sometimes that's a better way because the moment he realises he no longer has control over you he will get mad and you never know what he may do and it could get dangerous.

Abusive men don't change. Google "the freedom programme" It explains the abuse cycle and that abusers want power and control over you, the victim. Everything he does is for that sole purpose. It also explains how a non-abbusive man is and how women can hold the same core beliefs as the abuser which makes us fall for the abuse.

Just take care of yourself. It is very difficult for abusers to change

Gotta leave.
You can do it

Good luck