How can I loathe him and still stay?

I always wondered why women stay with the person who hurts them the most. I would watch others and just not make sense if it. I never looked at myself; although, it honestly took years to admit I was a victim.

I shouldn’t still be here , but I stay. Someone has to take care of me. I mean, I make enough money that I could live alone, but I’m not sure my health is up to it anymore. Curse him for taking my self worth and my love for life. *sighs*

And tomorrow will be another day …

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updown2020 · 61-69, M

Well people stay because some think they have no choice because where would they live how could they get money to live. Some think they are not strong enough and some have kids and they need food and clothes so they stay, Some are threatened if you leave I will come after you and kill you and sadly this does happen and people you are thinking about leaving hear this and stay. It's very hard to leave people do nt understand what it takes for someone to leave. But once they leave that when life starts over yes it's hard but it will get easier and easier and at the end some think I should have done this years ago.