How can I loathe him and still stay?

I always wondered why women stay with the person who hurts them the most. I would watch others and just not make sense if it. I never looked at myself; although, it honestly took years to admit I was a victim.

I shouldn’t still be here , but I stay. Someone has to take care of me. I mean, I make enough money that I could live alone, but I’m not sure my health is up to it anymore. Curse him for taking my self worth and my love for life. *sighs*

And tomorrow will be another day …

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SW-User

I can relate to this

It really was a case of being too young

And not having enough of a sense of myself due to abuse

Wanting to be the rescuer

And things progressively getting worse as he sunk to the bottom of the sea with me attached

So focused on him and his needs I completely neglected my own