I Have Been In An Abusive Relationship

I was married to someone with a borderline personality. Has anyone else experienced the same thing?

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I think the majority of people have at one time in their lives been in a bad/toxic relationship...where most people KNOW to bail from those toxic/relationship because they could see the red flags(warning signs) that the person was bat shit crazy....however there are a lot of people in toxic relationship who cannot see/comprehend those blatant red flags, thus making excuses for that person's awful/bad behavior, thus blaming themselves as to the reason why that toxic person behaves the way they do :(

Tiusflow · 61-69, M

@ZedsLeppelin2 i think of myself back then like a battered wife. I didnt recognize the abuse. I considered it normal

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ZedsLeppelin2 · 56-60, F

@Tiusflow There are many men who have been in toxic relationships with bat shit crazy women, who ultimately get blamed for their BAT SHIT crazy girlfriends/wives bad behavior....I know this to be a FACT only from my own experience with certain friends, who would verbally abuse their boyfriend/husband on a night out with friends while being drunk, and then try to start a physical fight with their boyfriend/husband by them hitting their boyfriend/husband first, ONLY wanting them to hit them back to be able to claim to the cops that they were physically assaulted by their boyfriend/husband, smh.

ZedsLeppelin2 · 56-60, F

@Mguinm We are all born to have COMMON SENSE and to have gut instincts...however, sadly a lot of people choose to ignore those God given basic traits they were blessed with.

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