Giving people the silent treatment is kind of abusive, tbh... but at least she later said " not up for talking"
If she needs space or something or would like to talk at a later time and it has been weeks she needs to give a reasonable end time for this silence otherwise why remain in the relationship? That's not healthy conflict resolution in the slightest.. it's avoidance.
Ngl, it seems like she's kind of trying to get YOU to break up with her in some kind of passive aggressive bullshitty way so she's not the "bad guy", but i don't know. i would have just confronted her by now.. because again, if there's no communication or anything is there even a relationship?
either way, good luck.
If she needs space or something or would like to talk at a later time and it has been weeks she needs to give a reasonable end time for this silence otherwise why remain in the relationship? That's not healthy conflict resolution in the slightest.. it's avoidance.
Ngl, it seems like she's kind of trying to get YOU to break up with her in some kind of passive aggressive bullshitty way so she's not the "bad guy", but i don't know. i would have just confronted her by now.. because again, if there's no communication or anything is there even a relationship?
either way, good luck.
solitaire · 41-45, F
@GymRat584 I was in a long distance relationship with someone I now consider a loser. The person would disappear for weeks and sometimes months together and when I expressed my frustration I was thrown crumbs and blamed. I had so much self blame and self doubt. I can understand your anxiety. It's been a few years since I completely cut the person out, but it was after months of mental and emotional turmoil. I'm not the happiest person right now but life is definitely more peaceful
pay your debts, buy things for her, work hard,
GoFish ·
maybe she doesn't want to be your girlfriend anymore you should ask her bluntly
Magicianzini · M
GymRat584 · 41-45, M
@Magicianzini she gave me the heads up years ago that she has a tendency to run away "like a little girl" when she's scared. That's what she's doing. But you're right: this is uncalled for now.
Magicianzini · M
@GymRat584 Ah yes, that was her warning you. Psychoannas always warn us in the beginning. Get out as soon as you can.
It will be healthier for you if you're the one who leaves. Be warned though, sometimes they're not "done with you" yet and will try to restart the game if you go.
Don't try to leave unless you're truly done.
Ultimately, you WILL be done. Don't wait too long.
It will be healthier for you if you're the one who leaves. Be warned though, sometimes they're not "done with you" yet and will try to restart the game if you go.
Don't try to leave unless you're truly done.
Ultimately, you WILL be done. Don't wait too long.
Sometimes life just isn’t fair and yes, it hurts.
Sometimes people would rather take the cowardly way out rather than face uncomfortable conversations and state exactly how they feel.
Hang in there. What doesn’t kill you, will only make you stronger.
And jmo but it does sound like stonewalling to me. Silence is not a feel good thing but a very loud answer.
I’m sorry you feel hurt.
Sometimes people would rather take the cowardly way out rather than face uncomfortable conversations and state exactly how they feel.
Hang in there. What doesn’t kill you, will only make you stronger.
And jmo but it does sound like stonewalling to me. Silence is not a feel good thing but a very loud answer.
I’m sorry you feel hurt.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@morrgin “Sometimes silence is the loudest noise you hear.” 😢
Let’s focus on the important part of the problem.. You did something for her to be silent.
But since we are on the topic of money, I too would be taking large steps back from a man who borrows money from women and can’t provide her with it instead. 🙂↕ @GymRat584
But since we are on the topic of money, I too would be taking large steps back from a man who borrows money from women and can’t provide her with it instead. 🙂↕ @GymRat584