Who truly gets you — your spouse or your best friend?

Between your spouse and your best friend who understands you without explanation. Who really sees you for who you are — no filters, no roles, just you?

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SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M

My spouse left me almost a year ago now, but we are on very good terms. She actually is my best friend, so I would say her.

Renkon · M

@SleepingWithGhosts Wow... that is interesting. How does that actually work? Best friends mean ....you like each other, right?

SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M

@Renkon Yes, as friends. There is no intimate stuff between us anymore or anything like that. After ten years of marriage, it just wasn't like it used to be. We have become much better friends than we ever were as husband and wife. We don't argue or anything anymore, we just enjoy each other's company.

Renkon · M

@SleepingWithGhosts Meant to be friends..I guess.