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A relationship are two imperfect people working on their complexities together

Everything can be about letting yourself protect yourself from being hurt . But...that's not going to help the relationship. It's up to you if you both want to work at it .Fact is most people can't meet each other's needs because they don't know...

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Blondily · F

Exactly. Stop being hurt by everything the other person says. Emotions really mess things up. Be kind and understanding at all times. No one is perfect.

Magenta · F

Spot on. 🩷
Whole heartedly agree.

we need to accept each others messiness

Our humanness.

We expect too much from another person me thinks.. We place burdens on them.

chernobylplaygr0unds

@Magenta too right

scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M

True.

Accepting the messy parts is key to understanding someone better.

Communication is very vital to strengthening the relationship especially during rough patches.

chernobylplaygr0unds

@scorpiolovedeep 💯 no one can change everything about themselves so we can choose to accept those parts or not and move on

scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M

Accepting ourselves is good for our mental health.

@chernobylplaygr0unds

scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M

@chernobylplaygr0unds

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

Agreed. And why I choose to stay single until I know I can handle that kind of mess. Too often I expected a relationship to clean everything up, but that's a fairy tale.

Keeper · M

What I've found FWIW

Each person should be in a good place (to start) individually, then you hope to "grow together"
Seems to be the recipe

Nunki · 31-35, F

Wise lady

chernobylplaygr0unds

@Nunki I've made a lot of mistakes to have wisdom

Ferric67 · M

That’s a bingo

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