A relationship are two imperfect people working on their complexities together

Everything can be about letting yourself protect yourself from being hurt . But...that's not going to help the relationship. It's up to you if you both want to work at it .Fact is most people can't meet each other's needs because they don't know what that is or what it looks like . We label it first so that we don't have to really deal with it . It's messy ...it's complicated...we need to accept each others messiness ...be open about it ...communicate it ...work at it ..
It's hard ...but for a fullfilling relationship it's necessary ..we need to accept the messiness....accept the parts of them and you that won't change ...

Or


Don't be in a relationship 🤷🏻