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So says she waited twelve whole years for her husband to get out of prison. Now that he's finally home, he only wants to use the back door when they're intimate—like, every single time. He says he enjoys it more. She also mentioned that he gets rough during sex. She's tried talking to him about it, but nothing changes. She gets that he's probably just doing what he got used to doing with other dudes inside, but now she's starting to regret ever waiting for him. So, what advice do you got for her?
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XxBlahxX · F
She needs to get and STI/HIV test asap
She should leave him..... If he can't change for her after she waited for him for 12 years... He is not worthy and she struggled for him and he won't talk about it then she should leave....
Lilnonames · F
@masterofyou i agree,tell him get a boyfriend and she go get a man
cherokeepatti · 70-79, F
She needs to get tested for HIV. There have been spouses infected and died after their boyfriends or husbands got out of prison .
Slap a sign on it that says “Exit Only.”
Learn to enjoy it as much as he does perhaps. Maybe she needs to peg him now as well. Prison really does change a man.
Bklynbadboy12 · 36-40, M
Move on he's obviously not the same person he was when he went in. He's damaged institutionalized. There is no future with him. As long as she's with him she wont be happy
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Definitely leave
Get him out of her place
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
This is a joke, right?
Hotchocolatezebra · 36-40, F
@Jenny1234 Nope. It's real.
romell · 51-55, M
Answers on the wall..LEAVE
put a lock on the back door.
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
That's not good...dangerously unhealthy for her...not knowing what he's been doing while in prison. It also means he is just there for the sex and not love. If there was any love in the relationship, it would not be this way. He should leave and she needs a lover
Northwest · M
Hmmmm. The problem is that he only gets off anally, and not that he was in prison for 12 years?
Hotchocolatezebra · 36-40, F
@Northwest She says he changed which means he used to get off the way a man and a woman normally do before he went to prison.
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ViciDraco · 41-45, M
Sounds like there's a lack of compatibility. She needs to tell him what she's not into and if he can't handle it then it may be time to split.

 
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