You got lucky. usally younger guys dont want anything to do with older guys if they are not being paid for it. 🍓

I agree. It's not so much the age difference, it's the fact that your son went to school with him. I don't think your son needs to know because what if he wanted to go to the guy and ask questions or they talk about you? Because I certainly remember being that age and telling my friends details about guys that I had dated and slept with, because most young people do that.

As long as it's consensual. I think you might still ask your son some questions about what he thinks. You don't have to tell him what's going on. Just see if he thinks such a dynamic works in a hypothetical sense.

I've heard people say: "What you don't know can't hurt you."

I say that's a sure-fire way to get hurt or potentially worse -- killed.

You don't need to tell anyone. But I might ask myself why, as a 56 year old man, you're spending time with a 22 year old.

a good decision

Unless your son is living with you I find it unlikely that he cares.

Yeah I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to know who you're schtupping.

Good .its nobody's business what you do

He doesn't need to know