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I decided my son doesn't need to know anything!

I am a 56 Bisexual man in a friends with benefits relationship with a 22 year old man my son went to school with, they are not friends. I started this relationship and initiated it with this young man and after taking into account what people said, i decided to keep it away from my son unless he asks me, then I am going to tell him. As long as we are just casual with this young man, I think we don't need to be telling anyone.
pet111
56-60, M
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Mardrae · 61-69, F
I agree. It's not so much the age difference, it's the fact that your son went to school with him. I don't think your son needs to know because what if he wanted to go to the guy and ask questions or they talk about you? Because I certainly remember being that age and telling my friends details about guys that I had dated and slept with, because most young people do that.
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pet111 · 56-60, M
@Mardrae That's right
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froggtongue · M
As long as it's consensual. I think you might still ask your son some questions about what he thinks. You don't have to tell him what's going on. Just see if he thinks such a dynamic works in a hypothetical sense.
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pet111 · 56-60, M
@froggtongue What's the point? its none of his business unless it becomes serious which it won't
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froggtongue · M
@pet111 you're not wrong. But it's just to know his feelings. But I don't care what you do. It's just a thought.
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pet111 · 56-60, M
@froggtongue Oh i understand. I just don't want to make him sus
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Sidewinder · 36-40, M
I decided my son doesn't need to know anything.

I've heard people say: "What you don't know can't hurt you."

I say that's a sure-fire way to get hurt or potentially worse -- killed.
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Ynotisay · M
You don't need to tell anyone. But I might ask myself why, as a 56 year old man, you're spending time with a 22 year old.
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pet111 · 56-60, M
@Ynotisay Isn't it obvious? we are having sex?
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Ynotisay · M
@pet111 Only a certain kind of "man" pulls that with much younger people. And "man" is in italics for a reason.
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scott18 · 26-30, M
a good decision
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trackboy · 26-30, M
You got lucky. usally younger guys dont want anything to do with older guys if they are not being paid for it. 🍓
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pet111 · 56-60, M
@trackboy That's very wrong, young gay or bi guys love older men, this is very common in the gay community. I had tons of young guys.
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helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
I think you should tell him everyhing ....especially if he is watching
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Scousspeter · 41-45, M
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pet111 · 56-60, M
@helenoftroy2000 Why would I?
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Jessmari · 46-50, T
Unless your son is living with you I find it unlikely that he cares.
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pet111 · 56-60, M
@Jessmari he does but he goes to his mom and spends time there too
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PinkMoon · 26-30, F
Yeah I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to know who you're schtupping.
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Sam17 · 18-21, M
Good .its nobody's business what you do
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nativespirit · 61-69, M
He doesn't need to know
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