So there’s this new guy. And I really like him. But he says he doesn’t know if I’m worth his time.
I’ve been trying so hard to prove to him but nothing I do is good enough. Does anyone have any idea what I can do to show him ?
22-25, F
deathfairy · 31-35
Ppl giving advice already, all I will say is, you will get to a place one day where you won’t let men be your main focus. When no man can control or influence any of your behaviors or decisions, and that will be the most beautiful freedom of all, and what you will be after even more once you truly understand that part of you. Men need you, not the other way around..
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@deathfairy men aren’t my main focus
deathfairy · 31-35
Okay, don’t want to assume things or shame you about anything. We are all on our own journeys, wish you well. @Medoesnotcare
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
Mamapolo2016 · F
Sweetheart, no matter how good this guy looks, he is manipulating you at best, and is at least toying with you.
If you did manage to “get him”, he would still keep playing you just for fun. The only person he has time for is himself.
People like this will treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated. Narcissists will treat you as badly as you ‘permit,’ and that can be very bad indeed.
Run as fast as you can to the nearest exit and find someone who knows the truth - that he is lucky to have you. If you can’t do that by yourself, find a counselor or therapist who can help you.
If you did manage to “get him”, he would still keep playing you just for fun. The only person he has time for is himself.
People like this will treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated. Narcissists will treat you as badly as you ‘permit,’ and that can be very bad indeed.
Run as fast as you can to the nearest exit and find someone who knows the truth - that he is lucky to have you. If you can’t do that by yourself, find a counselor or therapist who can help you.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@Mamapolo2016 he’s not good looking he’s old and in his fifties
Mamapolo2016 · F
@Medoesnotcare Oh, well. FIFTY? He’ll be gone in a matter of hours.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@Mamapolo2016 I hope not :(
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Medoesnotcare Alright, if that is what you want to do.
OogieBoogie · F
pdockal · 56-60, M
Move on
black4white · 56-60, M
Pretzel · 70-79, M
with his attitude - he's probably not worth spending the time with.
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
Why waste your time on someone who is making you work so hard
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@Cigarguy to prove that I’m worth something
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Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@SpectralMourning hehe guess who came crawling back
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MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
It seems he is not worthy of your time
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@PepsiColaP pardon ?
@Medoesnotcare get help fr
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@PepsiColaP rude. If I needed it I’d get it
LemonWorld · F
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@LemonWorld :(
aboveaverageaveragejoe · 51-55, M
You already lost. Move on.
Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@aboveaverageaveragejoe no he said that I need to show him I’m worth something and I’m trying
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Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@Darksideinthenight2 I’m trying that he actually said atleast I do what I’m told that’s the only good thing about me. But he’s still never happy and it’s hard
dirge · M
🤔
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Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@basilfawlty89 I’m not really into that tbh
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Medoesnotcare · 22-25, F
@NativePortlander1970 I don’t think he is
NativePortlander1970 · 51-55
@Medoesnotcare A guy should feel honored when a Lady honestly pays them attention, not brush them off.