why do feel so let down when somoene we love decided to do the unthinkable, you cheat and dont feel remorseful about it still stating they had to do i

Whether male or female; you cheat, prepare for consequences. As for those who got cheated on, walk away and move on. Never return to the cheater because once a cheater, always a cheater. This is what 'entitled' people do. Then they play the victim card whenever they are being held accountable for their poor choices. Or better yet these 'entitled' people claim they can do what they want when they want and dare anyone to hold them accountable. My condolences to all who got cheated on. As for the cheaters, do not ask me for any sympathy when you lose everything.