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3timesalady · 51-55, F
@SirAhmed Obviously u don't know my story, you don't know my husband, you don't know that I've been a good wife for 28yrs while he was exploring both men and women, but thank you for your contribution. U have to except all comments 🤗
Journaling4MeAgain · 56-60, F
My Husband did this to me once, when we first got the internet. I didn't fall for him or do anything he thought I was doing. I did answer private messages with him. I guess I passed his test, but I ended up trustsing him less for a while. I am so sorry this happened to you.😔
helenS · 36-40, F
Yes he posted a love letter on SW he had sent you (at least that's what he said). I communicated with him briefly.
I think this is really something between you and him.
I think this is really something between you and him.
Northwest · M
You may also want to consider how he figured out you were on SW. I don't know how to regain trust after something like this.
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@Northwest I told him, just didn't know he would go so far...
romell · 51-55, M
Few questions
How did he know you were here ?
Now that he knows you were here and connecting with others won't it amount to cheating ?
If you don't have a good relationship with your husband ,why not divorce first then look for others as this will definitely put you on the back foot legally.
All the best
How did he know you were here ?
Now that he knows you were here and connecting with others won't it amount to cheating ?
If you don't have a good relationship with your husband ,why not divorce first then look for others as this will definitely put you on the back foot legally.
All the best
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@romell wasn't looking for an affair, I was just vulnerable and in need of an emotional connection, but thank you. Won't forget u ☺
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@SirAhmed I never denied that I did!!!
LavidaRaq · F
@3timesalady you didn’t though.
BeJeweled · 61-69, F
Well now he knows your inner most feelings. I hope this creates dialog and healing for you both. 🤗
jackrabbit10 · M
when you contact another member hear it is like a box of chocolate you never know what you get, if it was me it happen to. I think the joke would be on her,
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
ThePatientAnarchist · 61-69
Could this not have been a loving series of actions in the part of your husband? Trying to reconnect with you through a persona since things seemed disconnected between the two of you?
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@ThePatientAnarchist Just wish he used another method!
ElRengo · 70-79, M
@3timesalady
He may be thinking the same about your method
He may be thinking the same about your method
dale74 · M
If you had invested that time and feelings toward the man you married maybe your marriage would be in a better state.
PHlover19701 · 56-60, M
Im wondering how he knew to look here and how, of all the people, even by region, he found your account? Was he already here and just stumbled upon it or did he dig through your device to find it?
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@PHlover19701 I told him I was here and he saw my profile name. I didn't know it was so easy
PHlover19701 · 56-60, M
@3timesalady Gotcha. Thanks. You've been put into a difficult situation.
Oops 🤭
Sweet00Lullaby · 36-40, F
Did you tell him you were on SW and your username, how did he locate you?
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ElRengo · 70-79, M
"... even after the deepest betrayal"
Also yours
Also yours
ElRengo · 70-79, M
@3timesalady
It seems that you had and have enough reasons to end the relationship.
And at the end of those years you gave him an enough reason for the same.
I DO understand quite well the destructive effects of a marriage that betrays what should be. Had one.
It ended long long ago but endured much more than would be healthy.
My view about is to never settle for less than not only love but being in love.
Hope the best for you!
It seems that you had and have enough reasons to end the relationship.
And at the end of those years you gave him an enough reason for the same.
I DO understand quite well the destructive effects of a marriage that betrays what should be. Had one.
It ended long long ago but endured much more than would be healthy.
My view about is to never settle for less than not only love but being in love.
Hope the best for you!
workathome · 56-60, M
Does he like Pina Colada??
Waxfoot · 56-60, M
Eish sneaky fecka