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💔 FINAL CHAPTER TO MY STORY🌹

💔 This morning I discovered that a person I had been chatting with here, someone I thought was genuinely interested in helping me work through my marriage struggles — was actually my husband pretending to be someone else. He created a fake profile to test me, to see what I was doing, and to get information from me without my knowing.

For days he spoke to me like a stranger, gaining my trust, asking about my marriage, encouraging me to fix things, all while knowing it was him on the other side of the screen. I opened up, shared my feelings, and thought I had found someone who cared about my well-being, only to be confronted this morning and shown the messages by my own husband.

I can’t describe the pain and confusion that came with that discovery. I feel betrayed, humiliated, and broken. Because while I admit I’ve made my own mistakes, what he did was deeply cruel. He played with my emotions when he already knew how much I was struggling.

I was never looking for another man — I was looking for understanding, for comfort, for someone to see me when the person who was supposed to love me made me feel invisible.
Yes, I’ve made mistakes. I chatted when I shouldn’t have, but not out of malice, but out of loneliness!

Now I’m left questioning everything — not just him, but myself too. How did we get here? How did love turn into this! Maybe this is where my story on SW ends. Maybe it’s time to step back, heal, and find real peace. Im not bitter — just tired. Tired of being deceived, tired of fighting battles that only leave scars.

If this is my final chapter here, let it be known — I spoke my truth. And I’m walking away with my heart bruised but not totally broken, because I still believe healing is possible… even after the deepest betrayal. 💔

PS. He left a post under the name 'Verifier'
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Journaling4MeAgain · 56-60, F
My Husband did this to me once, when we first got the internet. I didn't fall for him or do anything he thought I was doing. I did answer private messages with him. I guess I passed his test, but I ended up trustsing him less for a while. I am so sorry this happened to you.😔
helenS · 36-40, F
Yes he posted a love letter on SW he had sent you (at least that's what he said). I communicated with him briefly.
I think this is really something between you and him.
SirAhmed · 31-35, M
Women and accountability something doesn't go together very well.
You have given him every reason to suspect and check on you that's probably how he found you on SW.
The audacity here of you feeling the betrayal.
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3timesalady · 51-55, F
@SirAhmed Obviously u don't know my story, you don't know my husband, you don't know that I've been a good wife for 28yrs while he was exploring both men and women, but thank you for your contribution. U have to except all comments 🤗
Northwest · M
You may also want to consider how he figured out you were on SW. I don't know how to regain trust after something like this.
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@Northwest I told him, just didn't know he would go so far...
romell · 51-55, M
Few questions
How did he know you were here ?
Now that he knows you were here and connecting with others won't it amount to cheating ?
If you don't have a good relationship with your husband ,why not divorce first then look for others as this will definitely put you on the back foot legally.
All the best
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@romell wasn't looking for an affair, I was just vulnerable and in need of an emotional connection, but thank you. Won't forget u ☺
SirAhmed · 31-35, M
@3timesalady if the roles was changed you would accuse him of cheating :)
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@SirAhmed I never denied that I did!!!
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@dale74 You think I didn't tried, been married for 29yrs and this is the first time I stepped out of our marriage
LavidaRaq · F
@3timesalady you didn’t though.
BeJeweled · 61-69, F
Well now he knows your inner most feelings. I hope this creates dialog and healing for you both. 🤗
LavidaRaq · F
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hope you find some sort of resolution. Hugs
when you contact another member hear it is like a box of chocolate you never know what you get, if it was me it happen to. I think the joke would be on her,
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
He is a horrible human and sorry all of that happened. I know you tried everything to save your marriage, some can’t be and are not worth saving.
Could this not have been a loving series of actions in the part of your husband? Trying to reconnect with you through a persona since things seemed disconnected between the two of you?
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@ThePatientAnarchist Just wish he used another method!
ElRengo · 70-79, M
@3timesalady
He may be thinking the same about your method
dale74 · M
If you had invested that time and feelings toward the man you married maybe your marriage would be in a better state.
PHlover19701 · 56-60, M
Im wondering how he knew to look here and how, of all the people, even by region, he found your account? Was he already here and just stumbled upon it or did he dig through your device to find it?
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@PHlover19701 I told him I was here and he saw my profile name. I didn't know it was so easy
PHlover19701 · 56-60, M
@3timesalady Gotcha. Thanks. You've been put into a difficult situation.
Sweet00Lullaby · 36-40, F
Did you tell him you were on SW and your username, how did he locate you?
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ElRengo · 70-79, M
"... even after the deepest betrayal"
Also yours
3timesalady · 51-55, F
@ElRengo I'm not even talking about this betrayal. He's been at it for years!!!!
ElRengo · 70-79, M
@3timesalady
It seems that you had and have enough reasons to end the relationship.
And at the end of those years you gave him an enough reason for the same.

I DO understand quite well the destructive effects of a marriage that betrays what should be. Had one.
It ended long long ago but endured much more than would be healthy.

My view about is to never settle for less than not only love but being in love.

Hope the best for you!
workathome · 56-60, M
Does he like Pina Colada??
Waxfoot · 56-60, M
Eish sneaky fecka

 
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