Victim of Breadcrumbing

I have been with my boyfriend about 9 months, and he frequently makes plans and has to work through them. I have not met any of his family however he has met some of mine. He only messages when he feels the need...or desire. We have progressively moved from substantive discussions to purely superficial or sexual. I can finally see it. What I do I do now? I have deep feelings for this person, and just blocking him is difficult for me, especially since I am a people pleaser. Block with no closure? I'm completely confused, and my self esteem has been decimated. I feel stuck.

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Ontheroad · M

This is a guy playing the field... no doubt about it. Block, but not without closure. You need closure for yourself, never mind what he needs, wants or cares about.

Do make it final, and know this isn't about you. I know it hurts on many levels, but truly, it isn't that you lack in any area, it's about him being a POS.