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My boyfriend said what a babe! About a celebrity to but never said it about me

Hi everyone should I be worried that my boyfriend isn’t really sexual with wording.
but he apparently is attracted to a celebrity woman on question of sport and told me saying what a babe.

I originally didn’t hear him but then he told me again.
I was shocked because him say that and never said that about me or anyone so was like was there wording I never hear in spoken love.
He has told me he loves me in the past stuff like that. I told him would be nice if he could use them words on me. Which now he thinks am over thinking it.
)bear in mind we are 8 years in the relationship. ) And he trying to be more open sexually he struggles wirh saging things like am sexy , with his Austism. as I complained about him being closed off. Now saying he won’t do it again because I can’t handle it. But that not that I meant. He is saying his misses his freedom to say what he wants without worry of hurting me. He said he is sorry as well but i think he missing the point it.
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This isn’t really about that one phrase — it’s about emotional reassurance. You want to feel desired and verbally seen. He wants freedom to speak without feeling censored. Both are valid needs. The conflict arises because his attempt at openness (“what a babe”) was the wrong context — it showed his ability to use sexual language, but not with you.