I wouldn't have gotten into a relationship in the first place. I don't date anyone in the same workplace as me.

You probably are making a mistake. Alcohol leads to a lot of bad decisions. Everyone makes mistakes. Sometimes decisions made from anger destroy good things. Forgiveness is the key. I have a personality where I can talk to anybody.
One time on vacation we had just crossed from Arkansas into Mississippi and I stopped for fuel. I went in to pay and the beautiful lady that worked there greeted me and that Wonderful southern accent I hadn't heard in years came rolling out.
We probably talked for 10 maybe 15 minutes. And I was in trouble with my wife when I got back in the car. I did nothing wrong. But she didn't see it that way.
Jesus said that we are to forgive 70×7. And when your wife says I'm sorry, I'm so sorry, and is not just crying but sobbing for an affair that happened 30 years before, take her in your arms and hold her tight and tell her you love her. Almost thirty years later you will be glad you did.

I would've left him the first time he hit on my friend. The only reason nothing happened between him and your friends was that they rejected him. It's not that he didn't cheat,it's that the people he wanted to cheat with weren't interested in him. He didn't choose to remain faithful, he was denied access. If he's willing to hit on your friends what would keep him from hitting on strangers? And what would/has happened if those strangers were receptive.

You did the right thing and I may not know you but I am proud of you for walking away. The person you believe him to be is also the person he's proven himself to be, someone who is willing to and desires to be unfaithful. You are very blessed to have those two women as friends.

His behavior says he doesn’t love you more than anything though, not when he did and said things like that that would compromise your relationship.

I go by actions, not words. If they don’t line up then I check out. Plain and simple.

Every time I hear stories like this I just think it's hilarious how much the dude gets rejected 😂 nobody wants to be with a guy who not only tries to cheat on you.. but fails at it miserably because nobody else wants him 😭 That's embarrassing

Have a 3some!

He’s obviously a total horn dog and ditching him is in your best interest 🙄