I don’t understand love

I've been having convos with someone for weeks. We're both christians and met on a site where christians are searching for a partnerm Initially he wanted for us to be friends then rhe flirting started, concern about each other, plans to meet,etc. He is a virgin but wanted details on my past, I initially made him know I don’t have much experience ( two partners) but last night he pushed and I divulged more of what I did . He cried..... I stayed on the phone the whole night trying to console and eventually we ended on a good note.

Today, he went back to wanting us to be friends, saying he cannot trust anyone, he's fearful and was recommending suitors i should try on the christian forum.

I don't know what to believe in anymore cause he has had some minor experiences, not sex but sexual and follows other women online. But talked to me everyday, showed concern and now this csuse he believes i lied to him initially. I don't think we're supposef to disclose our entire sexual experiences with someone. I was advised against it. But thus guy....

Literally heartbroken because his heart, morals etc is of someone I craved for years. And now i just don't feel good enough and he's afraid of being hurt.

dirge

it seems like his expectations are unrealistic. 'not much experience' is very much a personal judgement call. to him (at least seemingly), you had lots of experience. to most people living outside amish communities, that seems like a pretty reasonable assessment. it also seems pretty uncouth of him to keep pressing on a topic that you didn't want to talk about, share, and was kinda not any of his business in the first place.

this is one of those odd reflective sorts of things, you feel like you're not good enough for him, but the reality is he's not good nor reasonable enough for you.