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I don’t understand love

I've been having convos with someone for weeks. We're both christians and met on a site where christians are searching for a partnerm Initially he wanted for us to be friends then rhe flirting started, concern about each other, plans to meet,etc. He is a virgin but wanted details on my past, I initially made him know I don’t have much experience ( two partners) but last night he pushed and I divulged more of what I did . He cried..... I stayed on the phone the whole night trying to console and eventually we ended on a good note.

Today, he went back to wanting us to be friends, saying he cannot trust anyone, he's fearful and was recommending suitors i should try on the christian forum.

I don't know what to believe in anymore cause he has had some minor experiences, not sex but sexual and follows other women online. But talked to me everyday, showed concern and now this csuse he believes i lied to him initially. I don't think we're supposef to disclose our entire sexual experiences with someone. I was advised against it. But thus guy....

Literally heartbroken because his heart, morals etc is of someone I craved for years. And now i just don't feel good enough and he's afraid of being hurt.
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SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
So you were honest and told him that you had two partners. He kept pushing for more details. You were honest and told him the details. And what you told him hurt his feelings and now he's afraid that you will hurt him. I mean if it's as simple as him not liking that you have a romantic history then that's on him...not much you can do about it. But if he thinks the fact that you have a romantic history makes you likely to be the type of person to hurt someone that just doesn't make any sense.
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LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F
@SpectralMourning yeah, he thinks i lied becuase I DID give the impression it wasn't much experience. Snd to me it isn’t cause it's just two, and I already feel bad about it. I dont see why I should indulge all of that to a stranger as yet.
@LoneGirl101 Divulge, and yes.
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
@LoneGirl101 Oh okay, you did mention that you told him that at first. But still...as you say it's some pretty personal information to be sharing right away. If it's make or break information for him though...what can you really do. If he truly feels like he's not going to be able to trust you then it might be the best thing for both of you that it goes no further. I'm sorry.
LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F
@SpectralMourning it's okay.