I'm getting married in 3 weeks... Any advice?

First and foremost, you must remember that, especially for a wedding and especially if you want to create a lasting memory for everyone involved, presentation is everything. When people come to me for advice on their weddings, I tell them to remember 3 things...

1. Fight any temptation to be trendy. While there are no guarantees when it comes to the longevity of marriages, take a "until death do us part" frame of mind. What is cool and trendy today is going to look bizarre and pitiful 25 years from now. Do you really want friends, family, and others to come across wedding photos of your wedding laughing their asses off over what you did on your wedding day? Don't just think of the one big day. Think of a lifetime. Stay classy and tasteful.

2. Instead of trying to impress your family and friends, honour them with a warm and inviting reception. That's all you have to accomplish: warm and inviting.

3. Match your wedding form and format to you (and by you, I mean you AND your partner). Your guests will feel like you are letting them in on your celebration. Would you redecorate your entire home to host a dinner party, or would you invite your guests to experience who you are and see how you (actually) live. Remember to include your partner as part of your planning. You both are forming a new and combined identity.

Best wishes and save a dance for me.