Are women still old fashioned, should men initiate the intimacy and sex or do you feel this should be an open to anyone?

Every generation has its own way of looking at relationships, how and what each gender expect from each other, what was not acceptable 20/30yrs ago is now acceptable./
How do women view this, do or would you initiate sex in your relationship if you wanted or wait on your man?

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goliathtree · 56-60, M

Always initiating gets old and makes it seem like the partner who doesn't initiate is only performing a duty...which is not a turn on at all. There has to be mutual interest...and mutual participation.

That doesn't mean that both partners will always be in the mood at the same time, but having someone want you should trigger the mood.

There is not much point in initiating something that is going to be rebuffed or only given begrudginly or because they feel they have to.