I need help leaving my boyfriend

I need help because something is psychologically wrong with me! I've already cheated and I need to leave him but something is stopping me. I don't have the balls to do it. Does anyone have any advice?

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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

You're afraid of change and the unknown because right now you're content with your situation because if you weren't you would have found the strength irregardless of any excuse that you've come up with. First and foremost you need to learn to love yourself enough to be brave enough to know that you deserve better. Why do you need him if you cheated? All he's doing is taking up space in your life at this point because you've been with someone else. He's a placeholder. Ask yourself do you need him?