Is it ever ok to get back with an ex?

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Yes

Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn’t

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dirge

i usually think of it as they became an ex for a reason. if they couldn't grow or change and i couldn't accept and move on or vice-versa, its unlikely to ever be different.

familiar or comfortable doesn’t mean its the right path.

SW-User

@dirge that’s the first thing that came to my mind, and it usually ends up being true

Maybe this time might be different?

dirge

@SW-User is it ever, though?

SW-User

@dirge rarely, but you never know unless you give it another chance

dirge

@SW-User i dunno, i often feel like i know ahead of time. i suppose laws of very large numbers might come into play at some point and it will eventually. i might expect things to be too easy or smooth

SW-User

@dirge I’ll definitely think it over, but you’re right
My situation might just be another bad statistic ☹

dirge

@SW-User i suppose from other threads here i could imagine it working. although i tend to think of that less as ex and more some sort of quenched thing