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My boyfriend has a problem with smoking weed

My boyfriend told me he'd start an argument if I went home to pick up my weed to smoke. I cannot believe he would say that. I'm aching for weed right now how selfish can someone be. It's not like I'm pushing it on him, it's for me and I bought it with my own money. He's essentially saying to choose him or weed. I can't believe people these days!
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
It has probably become a problem for you and he's trying to let you know he's noticed.
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul no I can go without for ages. I'm on break from uni and would like to smoke. He just doesn't like weed around him. When I suggest going home coz I'm bored he stops playing his playstation, gets angry at me then orders McDonald's for both of us I don't get it. He should just let me go home
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@UltimateDemiGoddess Well, he ordered food for the both of you. That's noble. Perhaps you need to show him you appreciate him more.
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul yeah I already ate. I would mind giving his money back but its made it harder for me to ask to go home. He clearly doesn't want me to go home and looked hurt in the face but got upset with me for being bored and stopping his playstation game because he felt bad.
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
@UltimateDemiGoddess Sounds like a real winner. Maybe time to part ways.
UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul you should be gelded for your abhorrent misogynistic views.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 Well, I don't think you understand thing one when it comes to proper relationship dynamics and etiquette.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul
I don't think
No, no, you don't. You're quite right.

Mark, have you ever touched a tiddy in your life? I'm asking honestly now
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 "You should be..."

So, you are a should of, would of, and could have type of person with passsive-aggressive behaviour who hasn't done anything but make bold claims on the Internet.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul nice projection, little buddy.

You have claimed to be a journalist, dietitian, psychologist political scientist, etc. with nothing to back it up.

Now, again, have you ever actually been in a long-term romantic relationship before?

If not, stfu and don't dispense dating advice like some guru when you have no frame of reference.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 I think I understand the complexities of relationships between men and women better than you. You have to realize when dealing with the real-world, fantasies you get from textbook memorization isn't of much practical use. Perhaps you can learn something if you stop acting to be the centre of attention... all the time.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 I'm sophisticated with world-wide experience. And I know how women need to be treated.
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 Well, you can take an isolated incident and blow up into an exaggeration all you want to make yourself feel better about yourself, but I think we both know the truth about your "situation."
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul
I'm sophisticated with world-wide experience.

Lol no.

And I know how women need to be treated.

That's cute and all, Rico Suave, but how come you've never gotten laid then?
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul
I think we both know the truth about your "situation."

Jesus Fried Chicken, everyone, he's psychic now too!

Do tell me about my "situation".
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 Let's get back to the topic before you rudely inserted yourself something you have obviously failed at... for a reason. The guy was giving her guidance and a chance to self-correct. He was upfront, straight-forward, and showed proper "relationship behaviour." There is nothing to find fault with. That's irrefutable.
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 Well, I just mean that you are trying to present yourself as a know-it-all on a topic that you don't understand. Look, it's true it does take a little while for me to warm up, but once I do I'm as social as the next person... maybe more so. I think it's obvious you are overcompensating for a lack of social skills and while you may feel that is working (for you) in the short-term, long-term you are not doing yourself any favours. Need I say more?
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul lolololol.

Bish, you're terminally only, have no friends and never been on a date. You literally need to touch grass.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 Well, of course you don't understand it. It takes a sophisticated gentleman... and you are not one... to efficiently and effectively navigate a relationship. Once again, I don't think you understand how the male-female roles in a relationship REALLY work. You have a textbook concept of relationships. That might make you feel politically correct comfortable and superiour, but it's not going to have any lasting influence... in the real world. The sooner you learn this, the better off you will be. Look, I don't expect you to get any of this... you're not alpha male material.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul Alpha Male lol?

You know that sociological model is based around failed wolf etiology, right?

And a dude getting scared at a basic conversation with coworkers does not scream "alpha" lmao.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 It wasn't "basic" and that was long time ago. Besides, that has nothing to do this situation. I'm providing expert advice while you are literally advising her to walk out on a relationship that obviously has potential and lasting meaning. I know how relationships work. You seem to know how to end them.