Looking Beyond Looks..Is It Still Possible?

"A question for the men here (especially over 50)..."

I’ve been wondering lately—
Are there still men out there who are genuinely looking for a good woman... not just a good-looking one?

It feels like so much of online dating is about appearances, especially as we get older. But what about character? Loyalty? Warmth? Emotional connection?

I’m not in my 20s, but I know my worth. I’ve lived, I’ve loved, I’ve been through some hard things—and I’ve grown. I still believe in companionship, in real connection, in sharing life with someone who sees you for who you are, not just how you look.

So I’m curious—do men over 50 still value that? Are there still men out there who want depth, kindness, honesty… and a woman who brings her whole heart to the table?

I’d love to hear your thoughts—men or women.

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LadyGrace ·

I'll make this one shorter. If a man chooses a woman on looks alone, he shallow. There's so much more to women and love. They're best bet would be to choose someone whom they can respect and each are very compatible, when it comes to honesty, good communication, respect for each other, faithfulness, and are not in a hurry to rush into a relationship but take their time and really get to know each other. These are the basics and if those are not met, there's no relationship. Just lust. People have to decide whether they are in love or in lust and there's a big difference. Never marry someone you can't feel respect for or who cannot be honest with you. Playing games are for high school kids who don't know any better.