Looking Beyond Looks..Is It Still Possible?

"A question for the men here (especially over 50)..."

I’ve been wondering lately—
Are there still men out there who are genuinely looking for a good woman... not just a good-looking one?

It feels like so much of online dating is about appearances, especially as we get older. But what about character? Loyalty? Warmth? Emotional connection?

I’m not in my 20s, but I know my worth. I’ve lived, I’ve loved, I’ve been through some hard things—and I’ve grown. I still believe in companionship, in real connection, in sharing life with someone who sees you for who you are, not just how you look.

So I’m curious—do men over 50 still value that? Are there still men out there who want depth, kindness, honesty… and a woman who brings her whole heart to the table?

I’d love to hear your thoughts—men or women.

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Are there still men out there who are genuinely looking for a good woman... not just a good-looking one?

If there are women on the lookout, there would sure be Men on the lookout too. Everyone goes through hard things and grow. But when it comes to negotiations in a relationship, it is not easy. Women are so used to expecting from young age, they never offer. Matured men do not go for outer beauty, but look for inner beauty. Online is a great platform for anyone to share their inner beauty. It has become so difficult for even two people to meet and talk as everyone has commitments. But most insist on meeting and dating, and lose out on communication.

Men over 50 want women who are adaptable, and not hard pressed. So first thing you need to do is to communicate. Talk to people you meet. There are so many men above 50 here.. just talk to them openly to understand them. Maintain relationship with as many through PM. That's the best way to get to their inner circle.