The things men say.

Lately I’ve been talking to this new dude. But I noticed when I say let’s hangout or do something he says naw I don’t want any problems. I sense another female is involved… men is this something you say to women if you’re in a toxic or messy relationship ???

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Rudboy41 · 41-45, M

The red flag is him basically saying no thanks, the only explanation being " i dont want any problems" i.e seeing you will create problems for him.. For some reason he doesnt like your intentions or the thought of being with you, so drop him.

As a guy i would give that answer under three circumstances:
1) the person, who has romantic intentions, asking me to hang out is a man and gay.
2) im already in or starting a relationship with another lady
3) if i knew you and i were related and i sensed your intentions are more than plutonic.

Guitarist07 · 31-35, F

@Rudboy41 I’m choosing number 2 I’m just reminding myself … he had relationship signs in the way he spoke