I see lots of people posting about giving up on dating and throwing shade at the opposite sex. Frankly I’m convinced people don’t try hard enough.

People have long lists of what they want from other people, but rarely mention what they intend to bring to the table.

And if you think guys just want sex, or women just want money, you need to use your whole brain.

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Renkon · M

You can never fully plan the journey of a relationship……you can only prepare for it. What matters is having enough love to embrace and tolerate each other’s flaws, and the emotional maturity to do so with grace.

It’s not always about trying harder; sometimes, the more you force something, the more it breaks. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t make the effort….it just means you need the wisdom to see whether it’s truly worth