Going for the gold
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Go for the gold- he's ligit
Let it go, he's a player
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So this guy i knew from high school days was chatting up with me about 2 weeks ago onbanother social media platform.
He knew about my recent divorce, the abuse, etc. Well, he said something to me that really made me stop and think:" you have ALWAYS been a fixer and a GIVER, its time u got things back. " i pondered this statement, because he was an old high school crush, but at tge time in the 1990s, he waant interested in me. He was a footballer and boinked with the cherr leaders..EVERYONE female crushed on him until he left for college. Two yrs ago we bumbped into each otger at the local walmart, and now 2 weeks ago on a platform..why am i being drawn to him after all theses yrs? We had a long conversation, only to catch up on details of his lufe..after college he moved on, got married and had 2 kids, now in their 20s..he informed me ive always been on his mind and it wasnt until his recent divorce that he crossed my path..is it fate, or shoukd i wait? Hes a good person, he has a job and many qualities id want in a man, but im not physically attracted to him anymore..he told me if i ever wanted a date, call him up..then i found out he was dating my cousin tara! They broke up and now hes trying to reach out to me again..i am either a rebound or hes going for tge gold! Thoughts, opinions, advice please, cuz i dont wanna mess up my life again, dating guys who only use or abuse me later..
He knew about my recent divorce, the abuse, etc. Well, he said something to me that really made me stop and think:" you have ALWAYS been a fixer and a GIVER, its time u got things back. " i pondered this statement, because he was an old high school crush, but at tge time in the 1990s, he waant interested in me. He was a footballer and boinked with the cherr leaders..EVERYONE female crushed on him until he left for college. Two yrs ago we bumbped into each otger at the local walmart, and now 2 weeks ago on a platform..why am i being drawn to him after all theses yrs? We had a long conversation, only to catch up on details of his lufe..after college he moved on, got married and had 2 kids, now in their 20s..he informed me ive always been on his mind and it wasnt until his recent divorce that he crossed my path..is it fate, or shoukd i wait? Hes a good person, he has a job and many qualities id want in a man, but im not physically attracted to him anymore..he told me if i ever wanted a date, call him up..then i found out he was dating my cousin tara! They broke up and now hes trying to reach out to me again..i am either a rebound or hes going for tge gold! Thoughts, opinions, advice please, cuz i dont wanna mess up my life again, dating guys who only use or abuse me later..
41-45, F
