Is it wrong for me to ask my girlfriend to delete her exes off of facebook?
She is pissed about it. If I am in the wrong I can apologize and she can keep her ex boyfriends as friends
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mindstruggle · 31-35, F
I don't think it's wrong to express discomfort regarding your partner being connected with exes, what matters is how it's communicated and why it matters to you.
If your request came from a place of insecurity, fear, or past experiences, I think that's valid and worth discussing. But asking her to cut off people without understanding why can feel controlling to the other person, which might be why she’s upset.
If your request came from a place of insecurity, fear, or past experiences, I think that's valid and worth discussing. But asking her to cut off people without understanding why can feel controlling to the other person, which might be why she’s upset.