Is it wrong for me to ask my girlfriend to delete her exes off of facebook?
She is pissed about it. If I am in the wrong I can apologize and she can keep her ex boyfriends as friends
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Renkon · M
There’s a reason they’re called her exes. At some point, they had qualities she genuinely liked—maybe he made her laugh, remembered her coffee order, or had great hair. But then came the other side of the scale: things she didn’t like—bad communication, weird socks, emotional immaturity, or maybe just the inability to say “I was wrong.”
In the grand tug-of-war between likes and dislikes, the dislikes pulled harder. So—snap—they were promoted to the honorable title of “Ex.”
Now, here’s what you should take away from this:
1. Her exes still have traits she once appreciated. So don’t get too cocky thinking they were total disasters.
2. She’s already running the same analysis on you. Right now, the scale tips in your favor. Congratulations! But don’t rest on that—because if you start stacking up those “dislike” points, you might just earn a membership card to the same club.
The moral? She’s always evaluating. The game isn’t won—it’s ongoing. So if you want to stay in her present and not her past, be a man who stays worth liking.
Humorous? A bit. Logical? Absolutely. Warning label? Built-in.
In the grand tug-of-war between likes and dislikes, the dislikes pulled harder. So—snap—they were promoted to the honorable title of “Ex.”
Now, here’s what you should take away from this:
1. Her exes still have traits she once appreciated. So don’t get too cocky thinking they were total disasters.
2. She’s already running the same analysis on you. Right now, the scale tips in your favor. Congratulations! But don’t rest on that—because if you start stacking up those “dislike” points, you might just earn a membership card to the same club.
The moral? She’s always evaluating. The game isn’t won—it’s ongoing. So if you want to stay in her present and not her past, be a man who stays worth liking.
Humorous? A bit. Logical? Absolutely. Warning label? Built-in.